Tracing your South African family history is a journey that spans generations—a quest to uncover stories, connect with ancestors, and better understand the tapestry of heritage that shapes who we are today. In the digital age, this journey is more accessible than ever before.

Despite death being an inevitability for all of us, as a society we tend to try and avoid the topic. And yet it makes sense to think about it, plan around it and make an inevitable event less traumatic, less painful, and possibly even to introduce aspects of joy and celebration.

This whole thing started back in the autumn of 2025. My sister and I – both in our mid to late 40s – noticed how our 76-year-old mom and her very active group of friends were making the absolute most of life, thanks to all the free and discounted perks available for folks over 55. (Mom’s currently on a mission to paraglide in Sea Point before her 80th birthday, if that gives you an idea of her energy levels!) Me (Lirette), Mom, and my "little" sister Maryke. What we noticed,